bakit nya iniisip na makakasakit sya? dahil ba sa magiging iresponsable syang tatay/asawa? sa tingin ko ay hindi, kundi dahil yun sa mas responsable syang tatay ng bansa .. meaning mas pahahalagahan nya ang kabutihan ng mas nakararami kesa sa kabutihan nya at ng pamilya nya. meaning nafifigure out na nya na kung mag-aasawa sya pero tapat parin sya at selfless na maglilingkod sa bayan gaya ng tatay nya, naiisip nyang masasaktan lang nya ang asawa nya at mga anak nya…

at alam kong naramdaman nya ang sakit na yun bilang anak ni Benigno at ayaw na nyang iparamdam ang sakit na yun sa iba kung sakaling magkakapamilya sya..ibig sabihin, mas gusto nyang paglingkuran ang bayan kesa sundin sa puso nya.. di ba napakahirap nun sa isang tao pero kinakaya nya, sabi ko nga maraming pumapatay para sa asawa o babae, pero sya, kaya nyang hindi asawahin ang mahal nya kung may lihim man syang minamahal para sa bayan…. kudos to him! siguro naman sa buong buhay nya meron syang lihim na minahal o hinangaan, pero tinikis nya ang sarili nyang kagustuhan para sa atin, para paglingkuran tayo.

Go unmask benignoo and get your true agenda, out!

parang kailangan nga ng Pilipinas ng Marcos na walang Imelda, Gloria na walang Mike.

When that was shown (to me) that she was there (for her husband) for better but not for worse, that would make you think.

And so I’ve been examining our life. It has perhaps not been easy and will not be easy. And that of course will make you think.

Maybe, it’s really part of my fate. While God has not given (me a life partner), maybe it’s because there are still many things he’s asking to be done. So that no one else will be involved in the pain.

Indeed, people are right that Noynoy — unmarried at 49 — doesn’t know what it’s all about. There’s nothing wrong with not being married at 49. That’s a personal choice, and everyone has their personal reason for getting or not getting married (including those who blame got for not giving them a life partner)

Getting married is a leap of faith into the future (seems like Noynoy has a chronic problem with dealing with the future). You make the promise to stick together for better or for worse. That’s part of the ritual called a “wedding”. But a wedding is not to be confused with a marriage. A wedding is a ritual and a marriage is more of a relationship. And last I heard, a relationship inolves two individual people with shared aspirations but not necessarily identical needs and personal goals. That means you need to work at making it work. That implies that there is a RISK that despite that effort to make it work, it still may not work. That’s life. Sh1t happens. You cross every street knowing that you run a small risk of being run over. But that doesn’t stop you from crossing a street, right?

So it is Noynoy’s prerogative to remain unmarried at 49. But since he goes on record about his reason for doing so, it implies that he is making said reason subject to public scrutiny and critique. And here is mine, Mr. Noynoy:

(1) I hope he is not being judgmental about wives who leave their husbands who are languishing in jail.

(2) As a future president of our fine Republic, I hope you exhibit a bit more clueyness around your regard for the future. So far as we have seen — your lack of a platform, and now this — you seem to have a grasp of the future that goes no further than your “fate” and “God’s will”. You cannot even seem to explain your romantic prospects in non-religious terms.

(3) Show us a bit more conviction about the future, sir — a conviction that comes from YOU rather than from the Almighty and his choir of saints in Heaven. I hope that during your term you use your time more around thinking and planning, meeting with and directing your secretaries and generals, and communicating with your people than spending it on your knees praying the rosary.

Are you planning to enter Malacanang in 2010 with personal conviction? Or do you plan to enter the palace on your knees swinging a rosary?

I hope those people who criticize Noynoy will finally understand why. Just imagine on every milestone of Noynoy’s life, he have major responsibilities na dapat gampanan.